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Relationships are essential… AND… they can be messy.
Do you recognize any of your relationships in this short story?



Relationships are everything. They are present in our work, our play, our passions, our frustrations, our hopes and our dreams. So how are yours doing? Could you use more connection? More zing? More clarity? More ease? More harmony? If you want more ELATION, you’ve come to the right place.


You’ve got lots of relationships.

Most importantly, you have a relationship with yourself that’s there 24/7. I want it to be super satisfying for you. You also have many other relationships – some are with people you chose, and some are not. How you interact in all of your relationships determines how your life unfolds. If you want more ease in all of your relationships, you’ve come to the right place.

Want to stop struggling?

Relationships are absolutely essential to our survival and to our happiness. Relationships can also get messy. If you want to stop struggling to make relationships work, you’ve come to the right place.

Loving results are possible for you.

You just need the right tools. If you’re finding one or more of your relationships to be a great big challenge or worse, it’s causing you anxiety and heartache and is affecting everything you do, I have news for you: You’re not alone. Whether it’s a romantic partner, a friend, or a co-worker, most of us are perplexed by one or more of our relationships! While relationship skills are so vital, most of us have never been taught even the basics of healthy relationships! It’s hardly surprising that most people aren’t sure how to communicate clearly or how to handle conflict, or how to negotiate, let alone understand and navigate the power dynamics that are in all relationships. If you want more loving relationships, you’ve come to the right place.

Skills for Change: a refreshing and liberating approach to relationships.

Skills for Change’s radical tools help end confusion and allow you to create more satisfying relationships — including the one you have with yourself. What’s radical about it? Skills for Change weaves together the cultural and the personal to help you gain perspective about feeling stuck and confused. Skills for Change can help you hear your own voice and recognize the critical voices in our head which come from others — so you can choose when to fit in and when to courageously march to the beat of your own drummer. At the root of this approach is the understanding that we’re so conditioned to believe there is something wrong with us that sometimes we have a hard time seeing how our reactions might be perfectly normal, given the circumstances of our lives. We also get so stuck blaming ourselves that we can’t always see all of our options. We need help reclaiming the power that we do have to create positive change. I am dedicated to helping you improve your relationships: the one with yourself and the ones with others you care about. If you want greater clarity, harmony, and joy in your relationship with yourself and others, you’ve come to the right place.

Here’s where things get really good

There are many layers to explore with relationships! And I love exploring them! I’ve also discovered some life changing tools I want to share with YOU! So, I’ve created a valuable, tip-packed free gift for you:


“12 Keys to Relationships”

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